Thursday, November 29, 2012

No through roads ...

There is an ancient Chinese sayings "  Got no through roads ". It is literally translated and it simply implies that we have reached a dead end. The only way is turning back but it cannot be done as time have moved forward and there is no way of going back.   It was a moment of suspense.  What shall we do ?

The above is like saying something silly and it has already hurt the person listening to it.  How can we reverse the event and the hurting have been done. Can we pull back our words or our actions to reversed the hurt ? No way.  It will never be the same again. A broken glass mirror cannot be fix and even if we managed to fix it, the crack line is there. The line will forever be there.

If these things happens in our life, we can only be regretful. Even if we explain and apologize a thousand times, it will be of no help. So, before we do it, we have to be aware of the outcome and try to avoid such situations.

Sometimes, the situation maybe created by another party knowingly or unknowningly. It is like a "sudden change of  fate, life will be changed forever".Such events will just happen in our life and we have take it and bite the bullet. We have to accept  that somethings  like such events can happen anytime and we are the scape goat or the fall guy to take the wrap.

What can we do if our actions have hurt other people ?  Like the broken mirror, there is no remedy.  Just absorbed it and take it as a lesson and pray hard for the affected person.  Repent and learn how to make life better for other people and create more positive karma.

In silence and in our heart, we can pray silently and to balance the negative karma from our mistakes. The Lord Buddha have Great compassion and forgiveness. We have to live on.

Namaste.

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