Wednesday, March 4, 2015

Great wisdom

"The first place we lose the battle is in our own thinking. If you think it’s permanent then it’s permanent. If you think you’ve reached your limits then you have. If you think you’ll never get well then you won’t. You have to change your thinking. You need to see everything that’s holding you back, every obstacle, every limitation as only temporary.


Friday, February 27, 2015

The talk of Sodomy

I am just sick of the word sodomy and it has been repeated so many times in recent months that I began smell shit everywhere.  This is my true feeling and I think the Government should stop talking of sodomy for political reasons. Make it an offence to use this word again.

Where in the world that the subjectof sodomy have been repeatedly use or done and publicize so much. It has been used over and over  and each time it hurts the people and the image of the country.  Is Malaysia the only country where sodomy is so rampant ? I think the media and Government have over done it especially the Shaffee guy.  He think is an expert in sodomy and going around the country talking about the shit hole. It is very smelly and bad for the kids , fellas.

Another website talks about the legal implication of holes in our body. It is illegal to use any of the holes in our body. Front, back and the mouth with or without consensus. It is an immoral act and using it with consent is also illegal. What happen to the lesbians ? Is there no immorality except only for the homosexuals. Is it fair to the different sexes ?

I don't know that the talk of consensual sex , holes , shits and the law can gain so much publicity and interest.  It was the best sex education for the wrong people. I think enough is enough and such talk is to stop and we return to more important issue surrounding our life and the country.

it has become so disgusting , immoral and stupid to talk around this subject again. Please never to bring it up again.

If it is ever used again for a purpose, I hope GOD will strike these idoits dead.


The benefits of Coffee drinking (ext )

Caffeine intake has been associated with a reduced risk of Parkinson's and Alzheimer's diseases, according to a new study released yesterday. – File pic, February 27, 2015.People who drink four to six cups of coffee daily may be less likely to get multiple sclerosis, according to international research out Thursday.

"Caffeine intake has been associated with a reduced risk of Parkinson's and Alzheimer's diseases," said lead author Ellen Mowry of the Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine in Baltimore, Maryland.

"Our study shows that coffee intake may also protect against MS, supporting the idea that the drug may have protective effects for the brain," she added.

The findings of a US and Swedish study – released ahead of the American Academy of Neurology annual meeting in Washington v each compared more than 1,000 MS patients to a similar number of healthy people.

Researchers tracked how much coffee the subjects drank in the one, five and 10 years before symptoms began for those afflicted with MS.

After accounting for other factors such as age, sex, smoking, body mass index and sun exposure, the Swedish study found that "compared to people who drank at least six cups of coffee per day during the year before symptoms appeared, those who did not drink coffee had about a one and a half times increased risk of developing MS".

Similar protective effects were seen among those who drank lots of coffee five to 10 years before symptoms appeared.

The US study found that "people who didn't drink coffee were also about one and a half times more likely to develop the disease than those who drank four or more cups of coffee per day in the year before symptoms started to develop".

More research is needed to determine if caffeine in coffee has any impact on relapse or long-term disability due to MS, an incurable disease of the central nervous system that affects 2.3 million people worldwide.

The study was funded by the Swedish Medical Research Council, the US National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke, the National Institute of Environmental Health Sciences and the National Institute on Aging. – AFP, February 27, 2015.

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Thursday, February 26, 2015

The bird that never came back

The bird that never came back.

It has been 15 years ago, since I let the bird out of the cage with the hope that the bird will come back to me. It has since get out of sight and never to return. Just like  the MH370 just vanished into the thin air.

It has never mend to be and my hope gets dimmer by the day. I have to let the bird go because it is getting restless and was looking for venture and greener pasture.  Anyway, my love for her make me take this hard decision. If it mend to be , it will be. Whatever will be , will be.

It is no meaning to keep the bird in the cage and bottle up the love for it. Love cannot be contained in a bottle. It can be as wide and as deep. The bird needs freedom and it is its destiny.
If you give enough love and freedom for it then it will stay or she flew off but will come back. 

Even if it fly away and never came back , it will be for a reason. She could have found a greater love somewhere or some where where the pastures are greener. It is never to regret because it has found a better love and we should be happy. 

We can only sent out a good wish in silence and hold on to that grim hope that the bird will one day return.


The Jade Emperor -CNY of the Goat

The Jade Emperor

Tonight is the 8th night of the CNY 2015 and it is to pray to the Jade Emperor who is the heavenly emperor. He is the greatest deity of all or the king of all deities.

It was believe that the Hokkien clan was save from the killers after they hide in the sugar cane estate and it was the Jade emperor who help them to safety.  From that incident , the Hokkien people used the sugar cane to pray to the Jade Emperor.

It was the celebration of a new day and this day became  the 1st day for the Hokkien CNY. It was thousand of years ago and the folklore keep evolving and it survive until today.

CNY is celebrated for 15 days and it end with a celebration through another prayer for a good new year.

Let's live well into the year if the goat with more health , wealth and new excitements.


CNY feel ?

It is so strange that  we have some CNY feelings eventhough it is almost 60 years of passing. The feeling is a kind of relax and carefree.  It  is strange as the days are almost like any other days in the year whether it is rooster, rat, pig or snake.  I think the sense is like starting a new.

Why do we need a year to start a fresh ? Everyday is a new day and we can start a fresh. why we need to wait 365 days to start anew. It is so strange.

Like a lot of people have said , it is always in our mind.  We are shaped in this way due to our past by the Establishment.  Every year, we have been looking forward to a new year to start anew. So, we can see the power of our mind.  Just like the rat responding to a ring of a bell for food. When the bell rings, it will find its way to the location of the food.  If we change the route or the spot of the food, the rat will be lost.

Today is the 8th day of the Chinese lunar day and it is for the Hokkien people to pray to the heavenly God. This is the first day of the Hokkien clan for the CNY. It is so strange why we have to 1st day of New Year. This is the creation of man and this custom have been drum into my head when we were young. Why can't  it be the first day ? If it can be the 1st day, then every day can be the 1st day , right ? This belief have been drum into our head again.

During a few days into CNY, my wife asked me to buy a pair of new shoes and I told her it is against our custom to buy shoes and booms.  These two items is not auspicious.  I don't know why but we were told that it will distroy our luck on the new year.  Yeah, it is drummed into our head again.

So, what new year ? it is a make belief world.  It is better than a white piece of paper and it creates a different feeling.


Sunday, February 22, 2015

Nothingness - fragility of life

Everything is a passing moment . Life come and go leaving no footprints on this earth. They are forgotten with the passage of time unless they have created an impact to this world.  Anyway, it is only for the historical  records to show how their life have impact the world.

Just like the hot weather, it comes and goes. Life goes on and the show must go on with or without us. We are just a spec of dust lying on the floor waiting for the wind to pick us up and blow us away.

In the end, it is nothing.  We came and go and influenced some human beings as we go through and the wind and rain will clean up our footprints.

Before CNY, I went with my wife to pray for her deceased father and mother. One rest in a hole while another buried in a 6' x 3'. What is difference?  It is still an historical record that we came and gone through this earth.  Many of the plots are left unkept and withering away.

During our life, we believe in Fung Shui , zodiac , palmistry and predictions. What is the point ? it is to be more comfortable when we live through life on earth.  Yeah, just for comfort only but the end is the same.

Maybe I having this negative feelings after spending  one half day with my cancer-stricken sister in law and this sharing moments with her really open up my mind about life. We can do our best to preserve our health but it has to depend on the higher up authority whether he or she wants to live a longer life or not. But , the end is still the same either in a box or a six by three.

It is actually very disturbing in our monkey mind but this is life. Either we control our mind or our mind control us.