Monday, February 13, 2012

Happy Valentine to you, love

Today is Valentine’s Day. This is a day especially for lovers but about those who have been married a long time ago. True colors showing now , right ? From red rose to black faces. LOL. Life is like these , once we got the things we want, it is like you own it forever. It can never run away .. this thinking is absolutely wrong especially in this generation.

In the days of the old China, the tradition and unwritten social rules forbade women to mix around or move around and the male have the idea to bound the legs of the ladies like a Bak Chang ( dumplings) to prevent them from wondering around and attract attention of other males. Nowadays, the ladies move around in cars, bikes and anything that is moving. They are much in control who they want to meet with or talk with or socialize with. So, Man , you better wake up and show your affections or passion towards your better half or your life partner. Don’t blame others but yourself. Your egoistic and selfish self. Every human beings like to be pampered and love , only wood or kayu do not need attention or passion.

So, occasions like Valentine Day give us a reason to show our love or our passion to the people we love. If we love a person, show it to them lah and don’t just talk , talk . What is so shy about telling someone we love ? Again, there are so many type of love. If you are generous enough show your love to your love ones , it can be parental love, brotherly and sisterly love, daughter’s love , daddy love, friendly love, neighborly love, etc. But, have the right thoughts but not with intentions or hidden agendas.

I took this occasion to remind all of you , take this opportunity to show simple affection and not just buying flowers, teddy bears or expensive gifts. It is always the thought that matters , gifts are just the wrappings and it will be discarded in time.

You have another half day until today to do the things your heart wants. Just do it.

Namaste.

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