Hurt feelings

Friendship or relationship can be very fragile and we are easily hurt by failed projects or relationships.  Why is it that it has to happen this way ?  If we failed in our projects, it has to be for a reason and there is no need to be angry about it.  Blaming each other or scolding cannot make the project revive or be successful. The fact is that it has failed and we should part ways gracefully.

When a project whether it is a business or personal matters failed, we are always protective of ourselves and we start to   point fingers at each other to draw the blame away from us. We are always pure and right or perfect  and this is the failure of others to be blame.

Hey, wait for a moment.  Why can't we calm down and also take the blame for the failures ? Is it so bad to swallow our pride and hurt our ego ?  We are imperfect beings and we have to accept the fact. We cannot always put our head in the sand and escape the fact. It is very normal to live in this fake and illusive world and believe that we are perfect.

It is better to realize that and keep the relationship and don't let our sensitive self to control us.  Of course, it is more comfortable to point fingers at others and this is the easiest way out of any failed projects and relationship.

I have make a mistake in my life , holding on to my pride and denied a good friendship.  I should exercise tolerance and acceptance of my imperfection to save that relationship and we should have remained good friends.  But, it is my own selfish need to have the full attention or possession of the person's dedication while blow out the good friendship. If I have acted in another way, it would have been better.  This selfish act will be my regret for the rest of my life,

So I call on good friends that we should not let  money, pride or own selfish needs spoilt our good relationships.  We have to calm down, kill our pride and swallow of ego to preserve whatever good memories of each other and to keep the friendship fire burning.

Namaste.