Let the bird out of its cage and let it fly. If it choose to come back , welcome it and if it choose not to come back then it have found a better place and love somewhere. Love affairs are like this bird, if you cage it up , you think you possess it and own it. You can neither catch love and put it in a jar. If a relationship is not happy , find the root cause and if it is not acceptable, try to change it and if it is not corrigible and become painful , let it go. The tighter we hold, the more pain , it will generate.
I have written this message after reading my daughter M's comment on her Facebook posting. It attracts attracts a lot of likes. She said that a relationship needs two person's acceptance but if it is to break , it needs only one side's decision. But love like life is not perfect and it needs a lot of understanding and support. It is futile to find a perfect love for life. It is only a fairy tale.
Love can be perfect for a certain period of time and then it turns into a lot of caring. What do we want in life? Do we need a partner to survive? Or are we self sufficient or we want to live freely without a partner? Finally, it is what we want in life. Our needs can change from time to time . Nothing is static.
The final message is to live freely and happily. We have all the compassionate love and we don't need a possession love or lover.
We can share our love with the world in our journey through life.
Namaste.
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