Love is blue, love is blind

This is a fatherly advise to all youngsters who believe they are in love. Love is blue, love is blind. Why is love so blue ? Yes, it is like singing the blues. There is alot of heartaches when you are in love. So, the color of  blue is the color of sadness.  Have you heard how a blue singer sings, it is full of soul.  It touches on your nerves and  emotions. Soul voice is full of  emotions. You cannot control your emotions when you fall in love. Your vision is blur and you lost your directions.

So, in the end, love is blind. What you can see is just an image of the person that you think you love. You love to be wanted , you feel important and you feel touched. You can only see the goodness and you are bias in what you see. You only see the good side of the thing but his or her negative  character can be excused.  You only see what you want to see and all other points are not important. You have fallen into a trap. An emotional trap which wired you up and not letting you go or get your senses back.
Those people in the love net cannot think properly and believe that they know what is good for them. They don't listen to their friends or family member. Their friends are the ones who is looking from outside in and knows the situation clearer.

There are many cases of choosing the wrong partners and it often end in sad endings if you are emotional in your choice. If you want to enter into a relationship, you have to go in with your eyes open wide.  You have to maintain your objectivity and keep your senses.  You must keep an open mind and accept what you see is wrong as wrong.  Sweet words can only last you a few seconds but hurts can last a life time.  When you make a choice , you must accept the responsibility and bear the consequences. Stop blaming fate and escape the responsibility which arise from your choice.

Don't fall in love to get emotional support. It is not a game or a challenge. When you are down and out , don't look for love because that is your weakest moment and you will fell for the sweet words. If you are smart , you observe closely for hypocrisy and false pretence. Don't tolerate the abuse and restriction on you and mistaken it as love. The flaw in a person's character can be seen with an open eye.

Keep your senses and give yourself space and time to think and observe. Don't excessively engage yourself and fill yourself  with "magic" like Alice in wonderland. Come out of the dream or your relationship  and give yourself sufficient breaks to think and judge. Mix around and compare with other choices. Breath in fresh air and instead of moving in the same circles without giving yourself a choice. Take a step back and you will see more clearly.

In the end. Listen , listen to your friends besides you .Listen to the people who have fallen in love before. Open your eyes and look at the choices you can have. Breath away and give yourself ample space to breath in fresh air and take a good look at the relationship. Mix around and enjoy life as there are many more beautiful things to come.  No hurry. Why tie down yourself to one tree when there is many better trees around. Why rush into a relationship, when there is so much things to enjoy.

I can only pray for all of you. It is you who make the choice and be responsible for it. Don't blame it on fate but your own blindness and your deafness to other people's advise.  So, listen and open your eyes to choose the right path to a good life.

Namaste.