The word " Fuck "- misused

Lately, I have heard this word more frequently than not.  I think this word have been abused very much and have used repeatedly for the wrong reasons or a wrong occasion.  The real meaning is something intimate and personal . When two parties are in love and turn personal , they make love to each other and in this meaning " they fuck each other " and in an intimate senses, they make love.
However , they are often used a  word to scold another party.

Often then not, we heard people scolding another party " fuck you lah" , you fucking idiot ! , you go fuck yourself or mother fucker or you fucking moron ,etc... the words will be never ending. But , it does not mean that they get intimate with you . They are scolding you.  Why do they keep abusing the word "FUCK".. It is mend to be satisfying but it turns into a satisfying scolding slang.  Where have it started the abusing of this word.

In ancient times, we have heard it already and how far back, I don't think anybody can remember. It is as old as bible or the Tao De Ching or when language has been first used. Such a beautiful expression of love has become a word to abuse and hurt people. what the world have become of ?

In American movies, we can hear so many of this expression and it gets until the point of overdoing it as this words ended up in very sentences in the dialogue.  Is this word kind of making a man more than a man or a women more than a human being.  Is it used to patronize or abuse people or to hurt them deeply like a sword thrust into the body of  the receiver ?  Yes, come to think about it, the word "fuck " acts like a sword to cut into a person's pride or heart.  I think it is the feeling of the person using the word to enjoy the sense of destroying another person by "fucking" them like a sword .

It is so sickening to hear these words , when it is used at the wrong time but it comes out of our mouth so easily from our " fucking" heads.  Lets refrain from this indulgence as it is rude, rough ,crude and abusive. Used it with love rather than use it with anger or hatred.


Namaste.