Can long distance love or cross border love sustainable ? I have a few friends who love or married a foreigner and intend to settle down in Malaysia. I wsa told that the life is full of obstacles.
It is not a matter of having to renew their visa frequently but to look for a job , there a full of obstacles. Can the couple bear all these inconveniences ?
In the beginning is only the couple but latter, the children .. Love at the beginning is strong to withstand but as love becomes more matured and life becomes difficult, doubts and worries will wear down the relationship All the long distance travelling to and flo and the expenses incurred , it is sometime that the couple would need to face and it is real.
Of course, there are couples who have successfully maintain their strong relationship but a lot will fall by for practical reasons and the means of survival.
There is also a lot of fairy tales of distance love or foreign love and most ot these tales are movies and it is just entertaining, In real life, it is real a test and it starts with love at its fullest. But to slowdown a little and think about it seriously, it can be really challenging, Maybe, challenging is a mild word , the word more representing is difficult
However, life is evolving and nothing is certain but the possibility of distance love or cross border love of succeeding is high and finally, the conclusion is that it is not worth all the trouble.
It is real and it is a difficult decision at the start when love is at the hottest
Namaste
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