Our real face

Most of the times , we are hypocrates and we are not the real us as we put forward a fake face to hide our internal problems or external problems.  We are told to smile in whatever situation and suppress our internal feelings. Yes , most of the time we put forward our fake face.

Asian people is the worst fakers as they learn to suppress their internal thoughts and feelings from young and through our education system.  It is rude to say you don't like or we don't agree openly. The suppression of our feelings lead to stress and finally, we suffer health problems.  What should we do ?

Among us , there those who spoke up frankly and we call these people arrogant and distasteful or control freaks.  But , these people are tied of suppressing their feelings or they don't like to suppress their feelings and there is nothing wrong with that.  These people are of minority and because of the majority of the people are fakers , these minority becomes a wierd bunch of fellas. People detest them because they speak their mind and demand their rights.  But, in fact, they are the real people.

What is happening to this world ?  We must acknowledged this real facts and change.  We should accept people speaking out their feelings even when they use words like " fuck " or " idiots" or any other direct hitting words. There is nothing wrong to tell other people that they are upset and expressed their feelings in a very direct manner.

Yes, the listeners' feeling are hurt and they become upset.  They think that a simple 'no" or a more tactful way to express our feelings would be more present to their ears. But, we cannot demand that those "real people " to behave like fakers . Smile when you are hurt or cry in your heart and bite your tongues and minced your words.  Keep peace, keep happy despite your hurt feelings. Speak not your real thoughts.

I don't agree but I think that a more tactful way or words to convey our feelings is important. I am also a faker ,hiding from my true and honest feelings and to pacify the people besides me and make me an honorable person and a lovable person without anger.

I blame the system for my fake self.

Namaste.