What a messy life ..

I have a god-sister who have so many affairs that three of her children comes from three different boy friends or husband.  At 60 plus, she is still looking for her " second spring " but luckily, her production days are over.  This hippie style was in the 60's where flower girls smoking pots and practice free love was rampant. Now, this trend is over. The trend of this generation is young girls not getting married and prefer the single life. What is wrong with the world ?  The trend change from braless to fancy bra and then braless again. From the wet look , it changes to the dry look and from the hairy look to the baldy trend.  Everyone is looking for their signature.

Well, back to my god-nephew and niece. Now, they have grown up to be the man and women of the day , how do they look at the mother ? Do their mother careless of what the children think ? It is really a messy issue. One of them who is an English and Chinese parentage openly challenge and criticise her mother for her flirtious life stye , another one refused to look her in the eyes and the only son who is more forgiving, is giving her a monthly allowance so that she do not depend entirely on any stranger who took a liking in her.

She do not seem bother by her children's impression of her and she has a mixed breed dog , which she is taking good care and talking to her bitch more  than to her children. Maybe, she is practicing Buddha's teaching of nothing is permanent and the important thing  is the present. Ashes to ashes , dust to dust.  At the end, there is nothing and everything just vanished. ]]

It is a different perspective in life and she choose a path which is an easy way.  It is like a life that  fools rushes in where angels fear to threat. For all of you, do not think so much or considering judging her. Nothing is absolutely right or wrong. It all depends on your perspective in life  Whatever, she choose to be, that  is her choice and nobody have the right  to change that. Live freely now and let go all your bondage and do whatever you want when there is still time.

Namaste.