It was indeed a surprise , an old friend came in to greet me after he visited my boss.
My first response to him " how is your back ? He looks surprised but shake his head " no good" but I am able to hike . He looks much fatter and heavier than before and I wish him good luck and health."
He continued to tell me that all his friends he has visited is already old. But it is a fact. If he is already old at 66 , then all his friends should be old unless he prefers younger friends.
I have always says that " age and time waits for no one ". It is a fact but we keep forgetting it and it only takes people to tell us or when we are awaken to this fact after seeing the reality of life.
I have been working for 43 years now in the same company and I am still asking " where have all my years gone /" It went quietly and silently and in no time , the curtains will fall on me.
A month is like a blink of an eye . Is it that fast ? Yes, it is like an arrow , fast and swift.
My staff and assistants came and work with me as pretty graduates or school girls but they are now mothers of a few children and some of them is also on the verge of retirement. If we look back , time have flew by us. Looking forward , you may not see the speed but looking backwards , you could see the years have gone by you.
The other day , I saw a video telling us to be available for our children instead of building cash returns , it advise us to spend time and build on our relationships. It is not about money or who we are going to be but to have a loving and compassionate living with all those besides us and have strong personal bondage with them.
Leave beautiful memories behind and let the people in encounter with you in your journey to have beautiful thoughts about the time they have with you.
The basic rule of life never change " birth , age , sickness and death ". The faster we realize and understand it , it will be better for you and the others besides you.
Namaste.
Friday, June 29, 2018
Thursday, June 28, 2018
Like a virgin
This is a title of a song and it means purity and clarity .. The word vargina depicts the private part of a lady and if it is intact , the person is call a virgin. It can also apply to a male and it means the male have not involved in any intercourse before.
In the ancient China, these male or female virgins are very much sort after for certain to maintain good health or purity. In Tibet or Nepal , only a virgin lady can be addressed as a " goddess". It simply means the utmost purity.
As I have written before, it is healthy for older man or women to engage in sex with these virgins. The ancient belief is that these give the older people , the young chi which could help to boost the health of the older people. But , whether this belief is true or false , there is no scientific proof for this achievements. Generally, older people feel younger when they are with the young people and this maybe a perception but it is a real feeling. The young chi around them help to boost the failing bodies of the older people.
Why I want to discuss the issue here ? At my current age, I could feel that some parts of my body is starting to deteriorate or become weaker. This is the sign of old age and I feel that working with young people is so much interesting so that we can share of experience and also enjoy their innocent jobs or thinking. Their immature or silly thinking will make us more lively while sharing our thoughts and experience. Of course , this is not for the sex but the thinking of the youth in them make us alive again.
The expression and appreciation by the youth after learning from us can give us a boost or like a " horse kick" impact and make us more aggressive or persuasive on them . I enjoyment of firing them up and to take life reality head on or by the horns and live out their life. This is a marvelous feeling from such experience.
It is like a duet. The young people have the power , innocent and the energy and the older people have the knowledge , experience and skill . This two odd part compliment each other well and balance up the lives of both parties. It makes a perfect world.
Namaste.
In the ancient China, these male or female virgins are very much sort after for certain to maintain good health or purity. In Tibet or Nepal , only a virgin lady can be addressed as a " goddess". It simply means the utmost purity.
As I have written before, it is healthy for older man or women to engage in sex with these virgins. The ancient belief is that these give the older people , the young chi which could help to boost the health of the older people. But , whether this belief is true or false , there is no scientific proof for this achievements. Generally, older people feel younger when they are with the young people and this maybe a perception but it is a real feeling. The young chi around them help to boost the failing bodies of the older people.
Why I want to discuss the issue here ? At my current age, I could feel that some parts of my body is starting to deteriorate or become weaker. This is the sign of old age and I feel that working with young people is so much interesting so that we can share of experience and also enjoy their innocent jobs or thinking. Their immature or silly thinking will make us more lively while sharing our thoughts and experience. Of course , this is not for the sex but the thinking of the youth in them make us alive again.
The expression and appreciation by the youth after learning from us can give us a boost or like a " horse kick" impact and make us more aggressive or persuasive on them . I enjoyment of firing them up and to take life reality head on or by the horns and live out their life. This is a marvelous feeling from such experience.
It is like a duet. The young people have the power , innocent and the energy and the older people have the knowledge , experience and skill . This two odd part compliment each other well and balance up the lives of both parties. It makes a perfect world.
Namaste.
Wednesday, June 27, 2018
In the moment ....
Our mind wonders and our thinking keep shifting. This is the conditions of an untrained mind . We must be occupied always . Idleness is not acceptable . To move is to be valuable or meaningful . This is the natural perception of a human being.
If we are not moving physically, we have to move mentally . The time to sleep is regulated and if we sleep outside the scheduled time, we are being classified as lazy . This is the perception.
We are all regulated . By what others thinking of us , by the teaching in the books and on the walls, or through our peers , TV or multi-medias. We cannot fall out of the expected routines and if not, we are out casted.
Should our life be so restricted ? This the norm of Society or our Establishment. All of us should be doing the same thing to live a useful life, or to have our earnings in life or for survival of the fittest. Whole lots of reason to perform to our best.
This is the biggest joke of our life as we are pulled by the nose ? Is this is the direction where we want to go or is force to go ? It makes us feel good isn't it ? This is behaving normally and not an out cast.
Who define this life style ? if we think carefully , it is just people. People created it . People tell us how to live , eat and die. What is the life process ? It is so well define is that there is no rooms to be different . This is the only way to come and go.
Books are written by people , tales are told by people and perception is also created by people . So, it is only people ,people and people who dictates our life.
People like to follow . Just like in the fashion world . What is the latest ? who created it ? no others, but just people. They are the leaders in life , leading us through it their way. Why are we so obedient ? It is because we are not in the moment and our mind is shifting back and forth and the only way is to follow and behave normally.
We are creatures of TREND.
Namaste.
If we are not moving physically, we have to move mentally . The time to sleep is regulated and if we sleep outside the scheduled time, we are being classified as lazy . This is the perception.
We are all regulated . By what others thinking of us , by the teaching in the books and on the walls, or through our peers , TV or multi-medias. We cannot fall out of the expected routines and if not, we are out casted.
Should our life be so restricted ? This the norm of Society or our Establishment. All of us should be doing the same thing to live a useful life, or to have our earnings in life or for survival of the fittest. Whole lots of reason to perform to our best.
This is the biggest joke of our life as we are pulled by the nose ? Is this is the direction where we want to go or is force to go ? It makes us feel good isn't it ? This is behaving normally and not an out cast.
Who define this life style ? if we think carefully , it is just people. People created it . People tell us how to live , eat and die. What is the life process ? It is so well define is that there is no rooms to be different . This is the only way to come and go.
Books are written by people , tales are told by people and perception is also created by people . So, it is only people ,people and people who dictates our life.
People like to follow . Just like in the fashion world . What is the latest ? who created it ? no others, but just people. They are the leaders in life , leading us through it their way. Why are we so obedient ? It is because we are not in the moment and our mind is shifting back and forth and the only way is to follow and behave normally.
We are creatures of TREND.
Namaste.
A hard day's night
This is a title to a song sang by the Beatles. One of lyric quote “ it’s been a hard days night and I have been working like a dog “. How true this statement can be ? But , how difficult it can be ? It only needs deep thoughts and time. Everything can be resolved but the outcome is uncertain that is all. Good , bad or ugly. There will be an end result.
A problem cannot be resolved is not a problem. It is already a certainty and a dead fact. So, what can we do about it. We can only accept it and manage around it. So, how can that be a problem. I have always maintain that there can only be quitters and no failures. If we continue to focus on a problem, there will be a solution and the outcome will be what we expect.
So, there is a very popular saying “ let sleeping dogs lie”. Another more dramatic wisdom is “ why flock a dead horse ? “. The horse is already dead and if we continue to whip it , it is of no use. Why waste your resources and energy ?
We have to analyst whether it is a problem or a dead fact. This is very important to understand the status of the problem. Often, it is very vague. On the surface, it is a problem and it needs efforts or focus to handle it but in actual fact, it is already a dead fact if we do not understand or know the underlying situation. We have to get all the facts above or underlying in order not to waste our effort.
One example of a dead fact is that it is raining now and you cannot change that fact or stop the rain but to find a solution not to get wet or stay in-door or postpone the event in an open field. If your car got into accident, you know that you have to report to the police and you will need to pay a penalty or a fine and if worst, you have to pay for the repair.
The difference between a dead fact and a problem is, you car’s wheel is loose when you are traveling in it. Do you want to stop , slowdown or drive to seek help from a mechanic before you get into an accident. So, you can still control the outcome and do something to avoid it.
If it is clear in our mind, we will reduce a lot of problems and will live a more happier life and not to waste our precious time on the matter which the outcome is fixed. It is better to be more analytical and clear in our understanding.
Namaste.
A problem cannot be resolved is not a problem. It is already a certainty and a dead fact. So, what can we do about it. We can only accept it and manage around it. So, how can that be a problem. I have always maintain that there can only be quitters and no failures. If we continue to focus on a problem, there will be a solution and the outcome will be what we expect.
So, there is a very popular saying “ let sleeping dogs lie”. Another more dramatic wisdom is “ why flock a dead horse ? “. The horse is already dead and if we continue to whip it , it is of no use. Why waste your resources and energy ?
We have to analyst whether it is a problem or a dead fact. This is very important to understand the status of the problem. Often, it is very vague. On the surface, it is a problem and it needs efforts or focus to handle it but in actual fact, it is already a dead fact if we do not understand or know the underlying situation. We have to get all the facts above or underlying in order not to waste our effort.
One example of a dead fact is that it is raining now and you cannot change that fact or stop the rain but to find a solution not to get wet or stay in-door or postpone the event in an open field. If your car got into accident, you know that you have to report to the police and you will need to pay a penalty or a fine and if worst, you have to pay for the repair.
The difference between a dead fact and a problem is, you car’s wheel is loose when you are traveling in it. Do you want to stop , slowdown or drive to seek help from a mechanic before you get into an accident. So, you can still control the outcome and do something to avoid it.
If it is clear in our mind, we will reduce a lot of problems and will live a more happier life and not to waste our precious time on the matter which the outcome is fixed. It is better to be more analytical and clear in our understanding.
Namaste.
Fate have its mysterious ways - A story
Ultra-marathon runner Micah True found dead in New Mexico
Sat Mar 31, 2012 10:02PM EDT
By LAURA ZUCKERMAN
(Reuters) - Ultra-marathon runner Micah True, missing for four days in the rugged wilderness of New Mexico, was found dead on Saturday, police said.
True, 58, was found in the mountainous Gila National Forest in southwest New Mexico, near the Arizona border in the early evening, said Tom Bemis, incident commander with the New Mexico State Police.
Nicknamed "Caballo Blanco," or White Horse, True became a celebrity after he was featured in the best-selling book "Born to Run" by Christopher McDougall.
True left the Wilderness Lodge and Hot Springs, four miles from the Gila Cliff Dwellings National Monument, on Tuesday, and did not return. The lodge owner notified authorities on Wednesday.
Police then launched a massive search for the missing man, with 15 search teams totaling 60 people combing through 200,000 acres of steep canyons and shallow rivers in the high desert.
His body was found with no obvious signs of injury, police said. A medical examiner was en route, but because of the rugged terrain his body was not likely to be retrieved until Sunday.
True had left for a 12-mile run carrying a water bottle and wearing shorts and a t-shirt. He left his dog at the lodge.
In January, True wrote on his Facebook page: "If I were to be remembered for anything at all, I would want that to be that I am/was authentic. No Mas. Run Free!"
True was the race director for the Copper Canyon Ultra Marathon, a roughly 50-mile race that drew a dedicated group of runners to Northern Mexico.
Sat Mar 31, 2012 10:02PM EDT
By LAURA ZUCKERMAN
(Reuters) - Ultra-marathon runner Micah True, missing for four days in the rugged wilderness of New Mexico, was found dead on Saturday, police said.
True, 58, was found in the mountainous Gila National Forest in southwest New Mexico, near the Arizona border in the early evening, said Tom Bemis, incident commander with the New Mexico State Police.
Nicknamed "Caballo Blanco," or White Horse, True became a celebrity after he was featured in the best-selling book "Born to Run" by Christopher McDougall.
True left the Wilderness Lodge and Hot Springs, four miles from the Gila Cliff Dwellings National Monument, on Tuesday, and did not return. The lodge owner notified authorities on Wednesday.
Police then launched a massive search for the missing man, with 15 search teams totaling 60 people combing through 200,000 acres of steep canyons and shallow rivers in the high desert.
His body was found with no obvious signs of injury, police said. A medical examiner was en route, but because of the rugged terrain his body was not likely to be retrieved until Sunday.
True had left for a 12-mile run carrying a water bottle and wearing shorts and a t-shirt. He left his dog at the lodge.
In January, True wrote on his Facebook page: "If I were to be remembered for anything at all, I would want that to be that I am/was authentic. No Mas. Run Free!"
True was the race director for the Copper Canyon Ultra Marathon, a roughly 50-mile race that drew a dedicated group of runners to Northern Mexico.
The douyou island episode
Someone sent me a link to watch the documentary report on the douyou island. What is douyou island and what happen to the Douyou island is a few rocky islands on the yellow seas separating China and Japan and it is only about the area of 7 sq kilo meter. It is belong to China and administered by Japan and through this documentary, we can see the brutality of the Japanese towards China through the several aggression by Japan into china. It is the three "alls" policy by Japan. To take all land , to make use of all of China's huge population to benefit all of Japan.
China was at one time called " the sick man of South East Asia" and through the Ming and Ching dynasty, there was so many aggression into china , Manchuria and Korea which was belong to China once a upon a time. Through the aggression , the world wars and the various war treaty , the douyou island was taken over by japan and after the second world war , it was taken over by USA and after that , returned to Japan for administration but the island belongs to China, Now, this case is been raised by China who is bring it up to the international platform to seek justice.
The evil of war , aggression and greek by one nation have killed millions of Chinese and in turn, during the second world war , Japan was flatten by two atomic bomb. It took two bombs to make Japan surrender and bring back peace to the world,
There is such thing as the law of karma.. You reaped what you sow and this is applicable to a race. The world is evolving and the fortune of the nations will also evolved.
Namaste.
China was at one time called " the sick man of South East Asia" and through the Ming and Ching dynasty, there was so many aggression into china , Manchuria and Korea which was belong to China once a upon a time. Through the aggression , the world wars and the various war treaty , the douyou island was taken over by japan and after the second world war , it was taken over by USA and after that , returned to Japan for administration but the island belongs to China, Now, this case is been raised by China who is bring it up to the international platform to seek justice.
The evil of war , aggression and greek by one nation have killed millions of Chinese and in turn, during the second world war , Japan was flatten by two atomic bomb. It took two bombs to make Japan surrender and bring back peace to the world,
There is such thing as the law of karma.. You reaped what you sow and this is applicable to a race. The world is evolving and the fortune of the nations will also evolved.
Namaste.
What is GOD ?
Today, Philippine President Durte criticize GOD as stupid and son of b.....h in a big catholic church which prompted wide spread criticism of him for his remark. Someone pray for his sins and someone agreed with him on his perception of GOD. He blames GOD for creating Adam and Eve and let them fall to their temptations. Yeah , another straight shooting son of a gun.
Coming to think about it. What is the image of GOD except that it has been imagined by writers of the bible or the church. Have you seen GOD ? Some people will answer, what you did not see , does mean that it did not exit. Just like the wind , you see not but you can feel it . Yes, this remark is true. There are many things we did not see but it is there and we can feel it.
But does the feeling resembles GOD ? Who created the human race ? Did GOD create us in his image ? In different religions , there are different version of GOD . There is a Muslim GOD , A Chinese GOD, a jewish GOD , etc . So many version and image of GOD. So , do GOD exit ?
The answer to that question is no there . It depends on the believers or for those who came in touch with GOD or taught to believe in him . GOD is not not one GOD , It maybe nothingness or in various forms.
Through the million of years, great teachers appeared at different times and different places and preach the existence of GOD and their followers refine their teachings or add , revised or modify their teachings to be more meaningful to the modern day people. They imposed their thoughts and belief into the mind of the present people through their writings , teachings and lectures.
Yes, we are make to fear GOD. This is belief is very good for a society or an establishment and provides some kind of rules , principles and guideline to the way we behave or live. It is better than the time in Stone Age where we go around naked , dirty and without any guidelines in our way of life. We are animals then.
But come to think about it, are we happier at that time or now ? Now life is so structured, established , routine and have a trend to follow. There are not so much freedom of expression or living in the way we like. We live to the expectation of our society or establishment and living out of it , means that we are not acceptable or a failure. Is it true that we need to live to the expectation of another person. Why do other people have to judge us ? We are we , our own self. An individual .
So let us respect what other people think or do . Why do we need to change ourselves to live like other people do. Do we need their acceptance ? Just like President Durte of the Philippines , he can speak whatever he likes , why should we criticize him ? Is he criticizing the believers ? If he do, what is wrong with that ? His thinking.
Just like what Dalai Lama says " if we cannot help others, do not harm them ".. you have all the rights in the world to do what you want but never create any harm to others in the way you act.
Namaste.
Coming to think about it. What is the image of GOD except that it has been imagined by writers of the bible or the church. Have you seen GOD ? Some people will answer, what you did not see , does mean that it did not exit. Just like the wind , you see not but you can feel it . Yes, this remark is true. There are many things we did not see but it is there and we can feel it.
But does the feeling resembles GOD ? Who created the human race ? Did GOD create us in his image ? In different religions , there are different version of GOD . There is a Muslim GOD , A Chinese GOD, a jewish GOD , etc . So many version and image of GOD. So , do GOD exit ?
The answer to that question is no there . It depends on the believers or for those who came in touch with GOD or taught to believe in him . GOD is not not one GOD , It maybe nothingness or in various forms.
Through the million of years, great teachers appeared at different times and different places and preach the existence of GOD and their followers refine their teachings or add , revised or modify their teachings to be more meaningful to the modern day people. They imposed their thoughts and belief into the mind of the present people through their writings , teachings and lectures.
Yes, we are make to fear GOD. This is belief is very good for a society or an establishment and provides some kind of rules , principles and guideline to the way we behave or live. It is better than the time in Stone Age where we go around naked , dirty and without any guidelines in our way of life. We are animals then.
But come to think about it, are we happier at that time or now ? Now life is so structured, established , routine and have a trend to follow. There are not so much freedom of expression or living in the way we like. We live to the expectation of our society or establishment and living out of it , means that we are not acceptable or a failure. Is it true that we need to live to the expectation of another person. Why do other people have to judge us ? We are we , our own self. An individual .
So let us respect what other people think or do . Why do we need to change ourselves to live like other people do. Do we need their acceptance ? Just like President Durte of the Philippines , he can speak whatever he likes , why should we criticize him ? Is he criticizing the believers ? If he do, what is wrong with that ? His thinking.
Just like what Dalai Lama says " if we cannot help others, do not harm them ".. you have all the rights in the world to do what you want but never create any harm to others in the way you act.
Namaste.
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