Sunday, June 18, 2017

Silly people

In this world, there are a lot of silly people who do not know their direction in life and even to doing stupid decisions on the daily routine matters.  These people are confused and get emotionally upset which complicate their simple thinking without considering any consequences.

It is very simple to life our lives . Just remember who we are working for or working with and keep a good relationship with them.  Today , my wife asked me why I am expecting something back every time I do something.  I told her this is basic human relationship.  Of course, there are disappointments if we have this objective in mind . The best is doing something without expecting any returns. This is very true but what is wrong with expecting something or some appreciation in return.  But , we should not stick to the expected outcome that is all.

If we treat our children well, we expect them to be appreciative and close to us.  Is this something wrong ?  If the child decide not to be appreciative , it is still okay but maybe we have not done enough for them .  Maybe, we have not taken care of them as they have expected.  Basically, when we are good to the people around us, they should be good for us.  Of course, there are unexpected bad results and we refrain from these people who are not appreciative. Period.

If we are good to our staff, we hope that they will be good and remain loyal to us.  If they are not responding , it is okay as we have done what we can do for them.  Maybe, their expectation is too much from us.  One of my friend told we  maintain a distance from people , so that we are not hurt in the process if they become angry , upset and cause us anxiety.

But , we can identify an unappreciative character or silly people who have the wrong expectation from us and in this way, it will not give us the heartaches and the headaches.  So stay away from silly  people .  Period in order to live happily.

Namaste.

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