I cannot be wrong

" I cannot be wrong" We are arrogant , stubborn. selfish and rigid. We are always right and please do not question us. We can do no wrong and we always  one first. This is the devilish part of our character。This  bitchy part exist in everyone of us and it is either in a small or big way and it fluctuates at each moment according to our mood and thoughts. In a polite term. We can be difficult and if it is against our self imposed principles than we can be extremely difficult. Other people could called us as stubborn old fool.  At  these difficult stance  our "I" is  very strong and we put forward a strong protective front even when we are wrong in our judgement. It is like " I will die to defend my honor and plight. Everything else is immaterial.  We become so impossible to understand. Our actions could be below comprehension and we can say words or do things that can hurt our loved ones, friends and peers if they try to bring down your defense or to prove you wrong.  By then, we. could have lost our sense of logic. After the incident, we could have lost a few friends. feel lonely and sad and we could out or cry internally at our wrongful actions and stubbornness. We realized that it was not the true "us" and as if another person have taken over us. We are back to our senses but we    could have done some incorrigible damages. As long as we aware of our "strange" self , there is still hope but we think we are right all the way, then we will be miserable and lonely. We should take these experiences and become wiser and we should try to overcome this bitchy self and to reduce the importance of the "I" and make it smaller in each attempt。To win over ourself and to be a better person. Namaste