There are so many forms of expression. By words, by actions, by facial expression, by our eye contacts, by our body language , by the tone of our voice, by associating with people ,etc.
If we express by words, we have to choose the words nicely and more appropriately and words together with the tone and loudness can make a different expression. Words can be expressed like music to the ear or in a rough manner and this project different meaning even the same word is used.
By actions, if we mince our words together with our actions and it could also project a different meaning to the words or senting a wrong message. The way we stand, our hand signals , our facial expressions or body language and the dress we wear could also have an impact on our expression.
Our facial expression is the worst indicator in our expression. Whether we can speaking the truth or acting or pretentious or emotional , the face is the most difficutl expression to control. It is because we cannot see our face and our face expression is influenced by emotions and inner thoughts and feelings. When we speak in anger, our facial expression will follow that anger and to emphasize the words. Our words will be loud, our face will be dark and fiece. All thing move in the same package and we cannot control our voice, words and face.
Next is our eyes. The expression in our eyes and when we are sad , the tears will flow and when we are angry , the eyes will widen out and when we are in love, the eyes will become small and misty. If we speak the truth, our eyes will winkle non stop. So, if we look into the eyes, the speaker will be fearful and will reveal more truth or falsehood.
By our body language. Our hands will tremble or swing wildly, our eyes will turn red, our body will be distored when we are angry and our words will come out very fast or slow depending on the body condition and our face will sweat while our hands will be sweaty.
By the tone of our voice. There are many people who have very good bassy tones and even when they are angry , their tone is also very nice but some people have natural nasty voice which is squaky and sharp which is pain to the year and only a few words could arouse the anger in the listner. This is very true and we have to realize which type we belong to. Some people when they talk, their voice and body language will betray them and will show out their pretentious nature.
Finally or at least the last form, is that people join the certain crowds to show definace and their unpleasantness. This is a stuble form of expression and as a silent protest.
There are so many forms of expression and many mixture of the various characteristics. It is impossible to master all these expressions and if we do, we are the GREAT PRETENTERS.
Namaste.
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