Hurtful words and actions

Our ego is very big , bigger than our face. When hear the words we like, we will happy but if we do not like the words uttered by other people, we will be become upset and offensive. We want to be the best and in the eyes of our peer, we are better. What we do is more important and when we see that our colleagues are doing a more important job, we will try to subpress the praise and step them down. Why? Do our actions to undermine another people's achievement benefit us ? Or if the failure of our colleagues to achieve their target good for us ? This is selfishness and bad attitude. We should be happy for other people if they are given a more important task or hope for them to succeed in everything we do rather the other way. We have to base on our own capability and quality to achieve our task. Not to step on others. Well, life is not like that and I often tell my staff , if you don't eat the lion, don't expect the lion not to eat you. In this world, there are so many cowardice and small heart person. If we hear any gossips, we should not fan them but just ignore if you cannot help it. Always make a big problem small and assist it to disappear if possible. In this journey through life, we are already carrying so many burdens and bondage on our body. We whould concentrate on our own affairs and to reduce our burden or bondage instead wasting our precious time in adding burdens or bondage to other people. Speak good of other people. Take the right action and speak the right words , then we will be happy always. Step down your ego and seize it and break it if possible. What you do, do not need the approval of others or influence by others. Do good and good things will happen to us. Namaste.