This is another issue of "ego". Nobody can be better than us or ourself is more important and nobody can hurt us. If they do, we will fight back or someone is better, we should pull them down. Pertruding nails must be hammered down. This is another common weakness among us human beings.
Why eyes have to narrowed when we see somebody been appreciated by another or look better than us. The narrowing eyes is to bring the person into focus and examine him or her thoroughly and to find fault with the person. We are always better than the other person.
Our heart tighten as our eyes narrowed. We feel hurt and revengeful and thinking of a scheme to regain the lead or dinimished the brightness of the person and raise our light to outshine the other person.It is really horrible and why cann't we appreciate and feel happy for another person's achievement and share the merits with them.
We should let go of this jealousy and release your heart from the clutch and open it up to enjoy the success of others. We should even help to make the brightness of another person brigther and enjoy the shine with him or her.
You might say that it is not an easy matter and I am not saying that it will be easy. Conquering our own self is the toughtest challenge we can have. If we diminished our brightness , it will hurt us or if we fan the brightness of another person, we will lose out. The other person may or may not share their shine with you or they can totally over shadowed us. Other people will neglect us and they will admire the other person and will grace his or her shine in life.
It is a basic human weakness that we should take care of ourself and guard our interest first before others. To put somebody ahead of us and step on our pride to fan the goodness in others, is a very difficult thing to do. It is against the basic principle of "self". But , if we can break it and walk over it, our aura will shine and it will be shining much more vigoriously inside us. We could feel the lift and happiness will surged up inside us. We can lfy without wings.
Before we can attain that status, we have to take the first step is kill our ego which fans jealousy. With the ego gone, a sudden force within us will rose and push up into the open space above. Our spirit will get lifted and it becomes a very easy task to feel eternal happiness. So, the first step is to kill self , and it will naturally build up the momentum to lift above ourself.
This is the power within us and we can do it. Just kill ego and destory jealousy and a new life will come.
Namaste.
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