Saturday, November 24, 2012

How we die, does it matters ?

This remark have been in my mind for a few days since I read in this remark placed in the FB by a friend, SF. I was talking to her about life is uncertain and she fully agreed with me but she is uncertain how we die.  Is this so important ?  We should be worrying how we live , right?

Nowadays,  Cancer is the number one killer followed by heart failures , viral infections and on and on... So, we die if not by the above disease, then  it  will be by old age if there is no accidents. Maybe, we should die in a dignified way. At least, no controvercies.

Why I say it is because I have two male friends and they are 5ex freaks and at their sixties, they still use viagara or power drinks to enhance their sexual powers and they frequently seek the pleasures of sex providers.  Both of them are married and I think both have lose their lovely feelings for their wives.  They told me that they are worried that they will die during sex and this will caused embarassment to their family and they will be talk of the town , dying naked in the bed of a  prostitute. It will be a  OMG.

Does it matter what happen after we die and how people look at us ? Maybe we are important to a few people around us or we are world famous, people have short memories and sooner or later , we will be a by-gone. Think deeply does it matter? Instead of worrying how to die , it is better to learn how to live.

In the movie, Life of Pi, illusions come from nothingness. When we are in a blank, our mind will wonder and it will create illusions , a make belief of our world.  The story tells about a boy who was stuck in a boat with a Bengal Tiger out in the ocean. Was the tiger real or an illusion?  There will be many versions of our illusion.  In real life, there is a lot of deceits and cover ups but in illusion, it could be a beautiful world.  In life, there is no beginning, middle and the end unlike in movies, there is a plot and a structure. It is more meaningful.

How we begin or end , does not matter, how we live is more important.

Namaste.

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