Finding someone like you - adele

For most of us, we have a few relationships before we settle down with the better half we are having now. These relationships could be good or bad experieinces and it became a permanent part of us.Some are fond memories and some are nightmares.For those fond memories, we regret that the love did not last but it became hurt instead. Such feelings was aroused by the song sang by Adele. The love did not die and it became regrets and we go all out to replace the love by finding someone like our lost love.

The truth is that if we find the one who resemble our past love, it will always be different. No one can be alike and it will end in disappointment if we try to make our new love behave or do the things like our past love. The search will never be ending if we start to compare two different people who have strong resemblance.

In the song, Adele sang about the memories of her past love and regret it never last and she will continue to search for "someone like you". SHe also begging your past love to remember her and she always remembered what he said " sometimes, love will last but sometimes, it ends in hurt. When we lost something good, we search desperately for it but when we had it in our hands, we take it granted. There will be no more appreciation if we take it for granted that it will happen in the way we want or expect to happen.

We have to let it go and if we continue to hold on to the past, nothing new will come. There will be new happening if we let go and we can start to have a new look at life. New adventure, new life, new expectations and new experience. Happiness is always within us and shifting of our expectation and perception is also with us. We had better to appreciate things more readily instead of taking things for granted. As our relationship matures,we will be focusing on the features we like and if anything goes out of place, we will jump and fuzz about it. For a granted situation, if we do nine things which is routinely perfect and remaining one is out of expectation, our better halves will see only the imperfect routine and will focus and attack it. This is a natural human psychology and nature working of the mind.

If we take a fresh look at things and take time to express our appreciation, your life will much happier and you will enjoy new experience and enconters. Love if last for a long while, it will become care. We should know the changing phases in our life. If you have the wisdom and understanding, you should change your color lens and see it will your naked eyes. Things will be different if we see things in different lights and angles.

Don't hold on things, let it go and new things will happen.

Namaste.