If it is not mend to be, it will not happen.

Sometimes, we try very hard but we are not successful. There could be many reasons that can prevent the happening. There is no such thing as plan to fail but only fail to plan. It is incomprehensible why certain plans fail to happen.  In the Chinese chess game, one wrong move, the whole game can be lost. So, many factors need to be synchronized and fall into its rightful places for an event to be successfully launched in perfection.

If things are not mend to be, it will not happen. So, we can only try to make things happen but it depends on its destiny. We can take good care of our health , our diet and we do plentiful of exercise but this does not mean that we can live into a ripe old age.  But, if we take care of all these factors, the chancees is that we can live longer. Nothing is assured and tomorrow is never guaranteed.

Wise man should live longer as they are wise enough to understand suffering and the meaning of life and they meditate for extended time but this does not mean they live longer. Once, I was told that a Kungfu expert who practice his martial arts everyday and he died at 55 of age due to Cancer. There are many such stories and I was also told by  my BIL James that he goes for Cancer checks very two months but finally, he was diagnose of Cancer. Things happen mysteriously and in its own way and at its own timing. It happens when you less expects it.

So, let it be. It is happens, it is good but after we have put in our best efforts and it still fail, we have to accept it and we should appreciate the process. It is easy to say than done as the negative results could be still hurtful. But, we have to realize what can we do. Can we change the result by feeling sad , hurtful and upset ? The result is still the same and we have put it on our self to feel bad about it.  We should stand up, wipe off the dirt from our face and body and move on rather than stay and cry over the spilled milk. Yes, we should find another cow to replace the milk without reducing our effort in the follow up process. Before, we do that we should have a good laugh and admire our strength in pursuing our dreams.

Please do not think this act as an heroic act but a simple philosophy and belief that failures is part of life and if there is no failures, there will not be any successes. Failure is the Mother of Success. We are  mend to fail a few times before one success and if we are ready for it and accepts it, it will not be hurtful or painful. It is just another process to realize our dreams.

Namaste.