What an irony? We should love and protect the one we loved most but yet, it is the other way. We take things for granted. We know our loved ones will forgive us for all the nasty thing we do or throw at them. They are our punching bags and our reserves or back ups. However, the loved ones feel hurt as the one, we love is always nice with strangers and take good care of them to preserve a beautiful front.
It is strange that why people are so hypocratic ? We keep testing the trust and love and we expect it to bounced back perfectly after we poke a dent into it. Our love ones can shout and say nasty things if they are angry and emotionsl. The hurt could be deep sometimes but they will take for granted will bounced back.
Lets take the example of a parent and their children. Their uncondition love and bonds. Often,there are no hatred which can last over night. And for couples, there is a chnese saying " they fight at the front of the bed and make love at the end of the bed". This is how long a querrel will last. We are taught that blood is thicker than water and we are in a family. So, we can throw crabs at each other and we never get angry. This sadist and abusive hypocracy is not good. Why can't we love the people who love us most. This is the right re-action and logical manner. We should go all out to preserve and deepen the love that we have been given rather than testing its resolution.
When we are angry, we should be mad with ourself because it is "we" who are angry and we should not transfer this anger to our love ones. When some one scold us , we should scold them back if they are not logical and not to thank them and carry the frustration and anger to scold our love ones or show our temperament to them.
We have to wake up and realized this error if we have been doing this nasty act of joking and talk nicely to strangers while showing your true color to our family and love ones. Our love ones are important to us while the strangers is a passing reflection. It is an irony that we wear simple outfits when we go out eating with our family members and we wear much better and acceptable dressing when we attend dinner with strangers. Why is it so? We are showing outsiders a pretentious front while we show our true colors to our love ones. This is really funny and silly.
In our home, a small matter is often blown out of proportion but with strangers, we maintain our cool and reason with them until the cows come home. There are many such occasions and examples, where we treat our love ones bad and stretching the limit of the love we have. It is better that we pray with our heart with no words than to pray with words and no heart. We should response appropriately to the love we received and protect them with our mights.
Namaste.
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