Stages of love and passion .

When we are young, our mother gives us all the passions , love and care until we complete our school. For some of us , we could enjoy the love earlier if we found the right partner on our journey through schools , college or university .

The initial period of love and passion is hot and tight with the time spend together flew by like a bust hot air balloon.  The courtship then was like magic in the air when there is love.  Time flies and love deepen.

Until we graduate , found a job  , it is time to get married and a new chapter will evolve with the desire and love to start a new family.  After marriage , the bondage becomes stronger and deeper . Some of us could have change some partners by then but it could be also a one man or one women affair.  The love is ever lasting and forever.  We are married until death do we apart. This is the situation of our Establishment and if we were to get separated earlier , it will be shameful for the couple as they are expected to live forever as a couple. 

After getting married and starting a family , the love and passion is shared among all the family members and the time for each other is getting less as the children start their growing up time.  This is where job, family and personal needs clashes with each other. 

Both the parents at the same time have to socialize with their colleagues or customers and their space is stretch even wider and at moments of weakness , there could be another matching partner appearing on the horizon and this could create complications to the working parents. 

As space , time and frequency of intimacy is getting in the way of the relationship, the love and passion will wane and maybe new love or passion could start or end , it will depends on the circumstances.  There are people always on the prowl for better relationship or matching needs. 

As the family grew older , the love and passion could change to care and help.  The relationship could step down to a looser link and could final fade into something strange.  From love and passion , it becomes hatred and strange at times as the demand for each other is getting worse or less.

So, with the feelings and magic gone, the marriage could become just a piece of paper to hold the couple together and it will get less and less important as boredom and the need for freshness becomes more vital to our lives.  It is sometimes better to tear off the marriage certificate which have become just a document and worthless at times.

However, for some , the love and passion remained strong and never waned until the dying days and this is really a true love and life with passion.

Namaste.