Failure, is it positive or negative ?

When we talked about failures, we have a negative opinion of the result. Who wants to be a failure ? Our mindset is make to believe that we glorify success and despise failures.  But , very seldom people think that "failures is the mother of success ". Wow, this guy who quoted this phase must be a very enlighten fellow who realized the important of failures at such an early stage.


Yes, failure is the mother of all success. Only through failures can we know the sweetness of success.  The more failures , the better but the ultimate achievement will be success. Who have the last laugh after all.


If we are successful in the first instance, it is okay but can we really appreciate the success ?  There is no yardsticks to measure the success.   It is like the analogy of money.  If we have lots of money , we will not treasure money but if we work very hard for it , we will treasure every dollar we earned.  We know the importance of money as we have struggle much for it,.


In today's life, failure is look on positively and it is a lesson.  A lesson to conquer fear of losing or becoming a loser . It is just like this analogy of pushing yourself to the limit of our tolerance and the new limit becomes our tolerance level. Our scope of thinking and doing things will expand and going further and further. This is the impact of failures, it push you to know your limits , tolerance and your base line. The more you fall down, the faster you get back up and continue your effort to strive for success.


If a child does not fall down, it will never learn how to walk. By this analogy, each failure is supposed to toughen us and make us more resilient and forceful .  Each fall , each bone broken, will make our body stronger and more tolerance.


Failure will also gives us humility which is another milestone to success. The humble we are in doing things, the more wiser we are to look at problems or hindrances to your pursuit. Yes, Robbin Sherma talk about a leader without title and such person works on the same level as all others and to lead by example rather than lead by title.  You become wiser and to be at the same level as others to work as a team on equal basis. This is another yardstick of success.


Life is very fair, The amount of failures will advance you to a greater extent of greatness and success. Believe it and work for it.


Namaste.