I saw this writing on my Facebook from my daughter's best friend and she describe love is like war, easy to start, difficult to end. I was wondering when has love became a war. So much killing,hatred and hurts. If love is like war, why are we seeking it？
Yes, love is sweet at the start and gets sour at times and sweet again at certain times and could be poison in the end or remained forever sweet,
But once it becomes sour and intolerable , it is pointless to hold on to it. If it has turn into a war, it is better to turn and walk away from it.
It may not easy to end a relationship as there are so much hindrance to it. The children , the properties , the parents and the society and the uncertainties.
All these are mental blocks which prevent us to make a clear decisions. There are some people who can do it easily by walking away and most people especially those with Asian cultures, they prefer to suffer in silence.
Life is short and yet we choose to live in war zone , it is incredibly stupid. Let it go , break it free and move away from these frustrating life styles. Break your ego and be your real self and go for what you want. There is no time to ponder. Don't change yourself for anyone and live happily. This is your right and your choice. The decision is within you and you can make it immediately.
My advise is not to encourage us to fight the establishment but why do we need to care about establishment and the people making the establishment . We owe them nothing and this is our life and we have all the right to do whatever with it without hurting others.
If love have turned into a war, just end it.
Namaste.
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