Fear

We cannot see the future or the result of our actions , that is the main reason for fear.  The feeling is a limitation in our ability to perform or to do something out of the norm.  We rather follow then to lead or living in a comfort zone rather than wonder outside.  The danger and uncertainty is too much for us to bear. This is the main reason to fear.

If we break our fear, we will move the limit of our boundary... an inch or a big step depends on our conquering our own fear. Just like the fear of height ... we stay 10 feet away from the edge and each step we move forward, we are actually expanding our boundary or border of overcoming the fear of height.   This is as simple as that.

We choose to live in a comfort zone , where we know that no danger will come to us.  So we move in circles or in a routine mostly following the paths which people have travelled , rather than to walk through the roads less travelled.  We should break this mental constrain or limit , push and breakthrough.  For a couple to show the liking for each other also takes a courage.  If both parties does not , make the first attempt , the relationship will never get started.  Little by little, each partner takes a small steps.  Introducing each other, start to take small walls or start small chats , start to hold hands, go for longer walks and until the first step of expressing the love for each other until the first kiss and finally getting married , takes courage and there is when the relationship gets started.  If both partners to stay shy and not making the move, the relationship will just end. If you think about it, and start to visualize this movements, you can see the expansion of your vision and wisdom.

Take the first step to breakthrough , to do something different, to express your opinion or your love for another and do not fear to be rejected.  By fearing , you just lost the battle to start a new horizon and a new living.

Namaste.