Most of the time our mind creates our imagination which is far away from the facts. Lets say a man and a women goes out often for lunches, everyone will think that they have a personal relationship or some thing personal or have a sexual relationship. It is very silly as this interpretation came out automatically in our mind. Sex , sex, sex.
Why is our mind so occupied with sex. Is there anything more in life ? Like a good friend or a good subordinate isn't that possible ? If we have sex all the time , we die in no time and life is not about sex , sex , sex.
This one example of which our sight often betray us. In Bangladesh, two men can hold hands and we always think that they are gay. Is is not like that and it maybe because they are passionate or it is common or a custom for men to be passionate to each other. Gay relationship is a taboo and our mind is always interpreting it in the most dirty way.
Once , a female subordinate came and ask for some special approval for her expenses and I told her that if I were to do it not according to the rules, people will interprete that there is a relationship between me and her. We cannot stop people's interpretation and people's mouth from talking and twisting the facts.
This point was illustrated in a Taiwanese show when there is a line of six person and with a short story been told to the first person in the line and he or she convey it to the second person and so on and so . The final person at the end of the line will then tell out the story which was passed on from his team members. The final result is a complete distorted and different story.
This story have been used to illustrate the art of communication and the end results really sucks . So, it is better not to form an opinion from our sight or hearsay and the end result could kill an innocent person or spoilt a good relationship.
Namaste.
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