A meek can become a geek .

At lunch time, I told my friends that a meek may turn into a tiger if it is cornered hard or trap in a corner. In the Chinese saying, you force the tiger to jump the wall. That is an impossible task for the tiger and it can only fight back. It will fight back feroucesly. You win or you die. That is the game of the thrones. Or you are with me or you are against me and there is no second options. It is very funny and sometimes can be illogical. Life is full of choices and options but yet, at a stage in time, some madness can persist. SOme illogical options or choice could be acted out and it becomes so self damaging or a self destructive mode. If only, these people in a situation can quiet down and reflect on its options and choose the most logical way to exit a situation. Life is full of choices and if we choose the respective choices, it will determine our life. It is like a recipe for food and the ingredients will determine the outcome of the food you make. YOu cannot choose a chicken to make an ox tail soup. The choice of the recipe will determine the outcome and this like life. Can we change the ingredients again as we don't want an ox tail soup ? Of course, we just throw it away and buy another set of ingredients to cook the food we eat. We just let go and change our mental decision. Don't hold on to the chicken and hope that it becomes an ox. It will never be and the ingredient will rot in the meantime. There are alot of setting in our mind and this settings are self imposed. It is a belief or an influence or a teaching which could have influence you in this setting. There are no borders and no constraints , it is a self imposed criteria or guide which can be changed anytime if we choose to unlearned. It is easy and it is within our choice. Just make it and don;t be self imposed by the judgement of others or self. Live like as free as a bird, as wild as a lion and as romantic as a peacock...just live. Namaste.