People's relationships are so fragile. Hurt by words , action and suspicions. Sometimes, the thought disturb us and make us have suspicious mind and thoughts. It is never easy to let go.
I have mentioned that if we keep holding the stick in our hand, the stick will get heavier and heavier and it will hurt in the long run. If you carry more than one stick, it will break your hand one day. The hatred, hurts and anger will eat you up and make you more miserable.
In my career, I have seen many people fighting literally until they cannot see face to face with each other until their dying days. Is this the way it should be ? I don't think so . All we have to learn is to let go. Each time, we encounter a problem or a relationship issue, we get upset and then we let go instead of harping on it and make our life miserable.
I am not worry about the offending party but rather the offended party. I could sense the hatred and anger from the words of the offended party and could see how miserable they become. Yes, the words or actions to be hurtful but as long as we address the wrongful act, we should let go and lets live. Everybody deserve many chances as there could be just misunderstanding or miscommunication or innocent acts that could result in an offensive act or uttering of an offensive word.
I believe everything lies within us to forgive and forget and to move on. We have to know that we are the master of our own actions and not a slave of our mind. If we are firm in this understanding , nothing can deter us from exercise the appropriate action.
During our journey through life , we can absolve many hurtful actions and words, we should let these offensive incidents stop for a while in our mind but let it go on its way forever. If we make all these incidences stored in our mind or thoughts, it will gather more and more disturbing thoughts and eventually, it will become too plentiful and heavy on us and will hurt us in the longer term. If we let it go through us faster, it will better as keeping the minimum hurtful thoughts in us will make our mind cleaner and have more space for positive thoughts.
Just imagine, if we let the rubbish clogged our drain, the rubbish will pile up and the dirty water will accumulate and make the surrounding smelly and dirty. Remove the rubbish and the dirty water will flow and the smell will be less and the water will be cleaner. If we are aware of this logic, we will happier and brighter.
Namaste.
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