Looking back

Looking back . Some times. We looked back in our past years and realized that we have make many mistakes which have changed the course of our life. What if we have married a different girl, what is we have chosen a different job and what if we do not invest in a business. All this are life decision which will make our life having a different outcome. While I was driving today while sending my younger sister home, we talk about my mother and whether if we have chosen not to do something would she live a little longer. I regretted not spending enough time with her and could have given up some venture to be with her. All these what ifs and the life changing events , are meaningless now and with stay as a non event "ifs". There should be no regrets as it has progressed as it is now. Whatever outcome of these " what ifs" whether it is a better or worst outcome remains only as a stimulation. Nobody can change an event and whatever we choose is as fated. It is a fake illusion as if we are given an option but it always come out as it is whether it is right or wrong. We can only take it positively and believe what is life giving to us a good thing. We have moved on and finish what is set for us . Namaste.