Sometimes our behavior became obsessive and we will continue to pursue something we want senselessly. We are blinded by the obsession , neglecting all the adverse impact or the severe damages which may come our way. We blow away all the logics and breaking all the rules on the way. This is very serious.
Like a fatal attraction. The obsession could come loneliness , stress or pent up anger and there is a need to release all these feelings and we need to seek solace or an acceptance.
I was told by a colleague that in Japan, a couple can be just staying together under one house but having separate lives and the only condition that the monthly income is shared by the couple. Next thing come to my mind is that why do they have to stay together and remained as married when all the love have been lost ? Is it purely to accepted by the society ? What an idiotic custom or belief to follow isn’t it ? Maybe, it is for the children but again, why ?
In the Christian marriage, there is a vow which binds the married couple which calls for a bond in “ sickness and in health” to be remained as a couple. I believe this is so, if there is still love. Otherwise, it could be another bondage to tie us down.
By saying these things, I am not against the Establishment but I think it is each person’s right to live whatever way they choose instead of been bind down by a vow or a sense of responsibility or to be accepted in a Society. We should have our own right of living. It is not a matter of right or wrong and nobody is qualified to judge on this matter.
Coming back to obsession, it can come and it will pass if the awakening sense return us to the real world. What we blindly chase and got, is a dream come through and who knows , it might become a nightmare as reality is awaken.
Namaste.
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