Marriage is make in Heaven.

Is this true?  Probably. People who live far away from each other , come together , know each other and get married. some is love at first sight  and for some it is so near and yet so far . never got hitched.  In yoga and buddhism, it is karma and the people we love and in our family have previous link in our past life, either as a husband and wife or some family members or relatives. A debt  or a merit to be repaid. Funny but it can be easily understood.

As I mentioned earlier on, some is love at first sight and some never get hitched and some carry on  a relationship for 10 years and finally get hitched. Lets talk about those people who have  close relationship and never get married or finally tie the knot. Why don't they have the courage to do the rightful thing or the unrightful thing.

If you have a relationship for a long period of time, you should have known your partner very well or not so well which make you hasitate to take the next step. Then what push you to the edge and make you jump. The sudden realization that it is too long, getting too old, a fraid of  being lonely or pressure from your parents. There could be several reasons and you have to search for it within yourself. This type of relationship is already matured nad it could blissful and last long for the right reasons but it can be stagnant and remain tasteless.  Again, it is within oneself to determine the outcome if one is patient , tolerance and understanding.  To stay in  honeymoon years takes two partner to clap.  Normally, these type of people is very cautious and conservative and do not believe in casual affairs.

Nevertheless, those  people who love at first sight is passionate and carefree. Probably, they believe in one night stands and testing affairs. They come and stay if it works and get up to go if it does not work. The hunter attitude. There is so many possibilities and outcome and life is like that evolving all the time and challenging one's self at each moment and happenings.

This thought is dedicated to my friend who is getting married soon after a 10  years courtship and to my friends who have never get hitched.  Marriage is make in Heaven and for some it is never mend to be or for some the time is not ripe yet.  No matter what, live as though tomorrow never come.

Namaste.