Age and time waits for no one

This is a typical Chinese saying and this phase appears in many books or lyrics of songs written or sang by many old and new writers or singers. It has a very deep meaning and age goes with time and when it ends , we just vanished..  It does not matter whether we are in a box or a pot or a verse , we will have this day at the end. 

Some one told me that what we need is only a cubicle or a space of 6 by 4 either in inches or feet , it does not matter when we are dead.  What is the problem when we are gone ? Somebody have also decided that their ashes is throw into the sea to feed the fishes and that is the end of it.

I read in an article that our brain remained a live for two hours after we die and we can still receive the verbal message during this time.  Yeah, it is good that the living knows about it and assure the dead to move on peacefully or cry out as much as possible to show their grief .. But is there a purpose, it is only a one way traffic from the living to dead.  To some  people, it maybe that best way to say what you want to say while letting go.

Yes, life can be terminated but the memories will live on for as sometime  before everything is forgotten and neglected.  If you are aware, you will notice that there are so many graves or cubicles left unattended over a period of time while the living goes back to their routine life and have to remained busy to earn a living or sustain their living.  This is the path that all human beings have to follow . For some , they will move on and re-marry or get another companion to live for the remaining part of their lives.  This is very real and logical .  The dead is dead and gone and there is no more feelings or emotions left to be jealous about . The connection is broken and any relationship is gone. What is the problem ?

Life is fragile , delicate and illusive.   There are so many ups and downs , so many new relationship and broken lives , all for a sake of a few 10 years .  Life is a dream , life is a movie , life is journey but whatever, it is , it has to end someday.

So live well , eat well and enjoy every moment before it is gone.

Namaste.