In our life, we met a lot of people and we tend to grow to trust them over time but in the journey with them, we are sometimes hurt by those people we trust. It could be by our own doing or the doing of others. However, we felt hurt and betrayed. We tend to shy away from these people and may some times to go to the extent of avoiding them.
No seeing is no hurting. But, this shadow of hurt goes deep in our heart even if we choose to avoid these people. Once awhile, the image float up in our mind and our heart hurts. Sometimes, it hurts really bad.
To clear of this hurt, it is better we come to face to face with these people and let this hurt comes out and we find a way to cure or soften the hurt. When the hurts comes out, it is easier to manage the feeling rather then it is kept deep in the heart. It will stay embedded and it will forever be there. We should even go further to seek clarification from those people who have hurt us and some times by clearing the doubts or getting a clear picture of what have happen could resolve the hurt.
It is easy to say but a lot of times, the pride or ego stands in our way. We thought we can live without this people who have hurt us and living happily ever after. But, it the hurt is gone , it will be better. Otherwise, our heart will be fill with a lot of knots and wounds.
Yeah, throw away the ego, pride or fear and stand up to face your hurt and seek a timely redress to make your life happier.
Namaste.
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