This morning , I heard the song " I don't like to sleep alone" by Paul Anka and in the lyrics , it says that there is no right or wrong in our actions as long as we do not hurt anybody. Yes, right or wrong is only at our own perspective and judgement. What is wrong to you , maybe that is proper for other people. Who are we to judge ?
I have written on this subject a few times and it is so strange that this topic keep coming up. If we want to judge , then it is fair for others to judge you as well. People see things differently according to their perspective and upbringing. For a muslim, they are taught and believe what they taught in their religion and they will be looking at things according to their teaching and influence while a christian may have a different sets of teaching and he will see things differently , so as a Buddhist, their views could be different as well. Just a religion can bring so much difference , so what about influence of culture, people, next of kin, family , etc. So many factors will shape the view of a person.
It is like looking through different tunnels at different direction , you will see different things and places. It is not fair to say what you saw and conclude your view and judgement of an incident. A slight shift in our eye's angle we will see different view and different colors of thing.
So, before we judge if we insist to judge is to see things in the eyes of the people who doing or carrying out the event and make sure every thing is in the same light, tunnel and directions to have a clear picture of what the person can see.
Some people like sleeping alone, others don't like to sleep alone. This is a matter of choice or perference and what about you ... do you ? So, those people like to sleep alone is not necessary right and point their fingers to those who don't like to sleep alone and accusing them of immoral or wrongful act. So , don't judge or less be judge.
Namaste.
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