Is there a perfect relationship?

Just woke up and it is only 3.00 am in the morning. Feel like writing a message from my heart.  It is a strange subject and dry one if you have been through life. Is there a perfect relationship? If you tell me that you have a perfect relationship with someone then you are certainly non human and maybe you are now at the loving stage and is blinded  by love. 

We cannot find a perfect partner but rather an understanding partner in life  which have the same interest  and a deep sense of tolerance and wisdom. If you are looking for a  life long perfect mate then you are in for a disappointment.  

For people who are young , they are young and  ideal and they wish to seek a perfect partner and they believed in perfection and their power to love. They are the exceptions.

They will learn in the process of life and they enjoy magic of love at the beginning and they learned to accept the difference in each other and  they forced themselves to have a strong sense mutual respect and deep understanding of their difference and learn how to enjoy living in this situation. They changed themselves to be different and to living happily. If they failed to change and accept ,they will live in separate lives and in an unhappy situation until a breaking point when they break up or die in a  mistery.

People can disagree to agree or agree to disagree and the depth of this wisdom varies from person to person and it is binded by chemistry and the longing for acceptance.

There is no such thing as right or wrong and it matters only whether you accept it or not and it is a choice. If you are adamant that you are right and refused to see and accept difference then there will be a deep strain in your life and your relationship.

We read, hear and told of many incredible love stories and we are set in life to believe and look for a perfect love , wanting that to happen in our lives. When two person want to start a relationship, there are so many  variables. Human being is an unpredictable creature and  very selfish in nature. With these characteristics, the combination of two sets of variables , there is a much need to find common grounds to sustain and a strong attitude to accept and to see things in your partner"s way.

In other words, you live for each other and putting the interest of your partner to be above self. Can you do it? It is not perfection but a deep sacrifice for the relationship to hold. The pain of your sacrifice varies according again to your needs and wisdom in life.

A relationship is like a ship in a high sea, going through many storms and waves and whether it can come through in one piece , it depend on the strength of the ship and the people stirring it.

Namaste.