Lately, I have heard this word more frequently than not. I think this word have been abused very much and have used repeatedly for the wrong reasons or a wrong occasion. The real meaning is something intimate and personal . When two parties are in love and turn personal , they make love to each other and in this meaning " they fuck each other " and in an intimate senses, they make love.
However , they are often used a word to scold another party.
Often then not, we heard people scolding another party " fuck you lah" , you fucking idiot ! , you go fuck yourself or mother fucker or you fucking moron ,etc... the words will be never ending. But , it does not mean that they get intimate with you . They are scolding you. Why do they keep abusing the word "FUCK".. It is mend to be satisfying but it turns into a satisfying scolding slang. Where have it started the abusing of this word.
In ancient times, we have heard it already and how far back, I don't think anybody can remember. It is as old as bible or the Tao De Ching or when language has been first used. Such a beautiful expression of love has become a word to abuse and hurt people. what the world have become of ?
In American movies, we can hear so many of this expression and it gets until the point of overdoing it as this words ended up in very sentences in the dialogue. Is this word kind of making a man more than a man or a women more than a human being. Is it used to patronize or abuse people or to hurt them deeply like a sword thrust into the body of the receiver ? Yes, come to think about it, the word "fuck " acts like a sword to cut into a person's pride or heart. I think it is the feeling of the person using the word to enjoy the sense of destroying another person by "fucking" them like a sword .
It is so sickening to hear these words , when it is used at the wrong time but it comes out of our mouth so easily from our " fucking" heads. Lets refrain from this indulgence as it is rude, rough ,crude and abusive. Used it with love rather than use it with anger or hatred.
Namaste.
Monday, July 10, 2017
Do you know where you are going to ? Renewal
This is a title of a song and I have written something with this title . It is getting more meaningful by the day. What are we waiting for or where are going to ? Time is limited and it will expire one day. the day will definitely coming even if we choose not to think about it. Going , going and is gone.
So where are you going to ? The past is gone and only memories remained. Are you going in circles or an endless routine , oiling the wheels of fortune or some doing some hard jobs over and over again. Getting tired and have no time to think ? Wei, you have to wake up leh.
I read one wise phase. Your death is not pre-destined , it is due to your own doings , consciously or unconsciously. You think that by getting into a routine and not taking time to think about yourself and leaving your health to GOD is not your own doing ? Sorry lah. You are wrong. If you don't pay attention to yourself and blaming GOD for your destiny , it is utterly nonsense. You must be aware of what you are doing or how your are doing and make an effort to ratify your situation or yourself consciously and leaving it to GOD to do the rest.
Yesterday , I saw an old man walking with a stick , his legs were so think and he is struggling to walk. I try to blame GOD of it but coming to think about it, it might be GOD's doing at all. I do not know the past of this old man but I think he is the cause of his problem when he is young. It is not the cause of Karma but his own doing and he could be burying himself at work or in the sand and let the condition happen. I might be wrong but our destiny is our hands and don't blame others for it. It is easy to blame as we think we are the perfect being but the fact is cruel and it is us to be blamed if we do not wake up and take charge.
The end is the same for all but the journey there could be different.
Namaste.
So where are you going to ? The past is gone and only memories remained. Are you going in circles or an endless routine , oiling the wheels of fortune or some doing some hard jobs over and over again. Getting tired and have no time to think ? Wei, you have to wake up leh.
I read one wise phase. Your death is not pre-destined , it is due to your own doings , consciously or unconsciously. You think that by getting into a routine and not taking time to think about yourself and leaving your health to GOD is not your own doing ? Sorry lah. You are wrong. If you don't pay attention to yourself and blaming GOD for your destiny , it is utterly nonsense. You must be aware of what you are doing or how your are doing and make an effort to ratify your situation or yourself consciously and leaving it to GOD to do the rest.
Yesterday , I saw an old man walking with a stick , his legs were so think and he is struggling to walk. I try to blame GOD of it but coming to think about it, it might be GOD's doing at all. I do not know the past of this old man but I think he is the cause of his problem when he is young. It is not the cause of Karma but his own doing and he could be burying himself at work or in the sand and let the condition happen. I might be wrong but our destiny is our hands and don't blame others for it. It is easy to blame as we think we are the perfect being but the fact is cruel and it is us to be blamed if we do not wake up and take charge.
The end is the same for all but the journey there could be different.
Namaste.
Thursday, July 6, 2017
Chemistry, the power of attraction
Wait, it is not chemistry per se . it is human chemistry, the love at first sight or the power of attraction. People just got attached with each other by the fact that they love what they see and feel. It is not the beauty but the way of talking , walking, smiling , the look in the eyes or the natural smell of the body which has nothing to do with the face or the physical shape of the body.
Some people are just attracted by a single factor or multiple factor and they just love what they see and feel. The tone of the voice or the arrangement of the teeth or the sway of the body. Just one look and the heart will just fall. It can also be the way the person walk or stand , it could be a heart felt impact.
It is a miracle when sometimes, we see an ugly girl with a handsome man or vice versa. For example , the President of France , Macron who love his teacher which is 30 years older than him. It could be that heaven make them as a pair. There is no reason , it is just mixed naturally and mold into one and becomes un-separatable . Life is like that and it is just that . No logic , no reason and this this is call true love.
Once I saw a women who was very beautiful on the scene and the man fall in love with her due to her beauty but off screen, when she removed her cosmetics and their fixtures ie prop up bra or dentures, she becomes another person which is unrecognizable. This is the world of illusion and fake impressions.
Two strangers when they met for the first time, can experience the bonding and the feeling that they have known each other for many years or many life time and can talk forever and love each other deeply without any reasons. Whereas , people who have been together for many years and still have no feelings for each other. This is the magic of chemistry.
For the natural chemistry, it cannot be fake or illusionary. The feeling is real and natural and it cannot be replace. This is natural bondage between two person through natural chemistry.
Namaste.
Some people are just attracted by a single factor or multiple factor and they just love what they see and feel. The tone of the voice or the arrangement of the teeth or the sway of the body. Just one look and the heart will just fall. It can also be the way the person walk or stand , it could be a heart felt impact.
It is a miracle when sometimes, we see an ugly girl with a handsome man or vice versa. For example , the President of France , Macron who love his teacher which is 30 years older than him. It could be that heaven make them as a pair. There is no reason , it is just mixed naturally and mold into one and becomes un-separatable . Life is like that and it is just that . No logic , no reason and this this is call true love.
Once I saw a women who was very beautiful on the scene and the man fall in love with her due to her beauty but off screen, when she removed her cosmetics and their fixtures ie prop up bra or dentures, she becomes another person which is unrecognizable. This is the world of illusion and fake impressions.
Two strangers when they met for the first time, can experience the bonding and the feeling that they have known each other for many years or many life time and can talk forever and love each other deeply without any reasons. Whereas , people who have been together for many years and still have no feelings for each other. This is the magic of chemistry.
For the natural chemistry, it cannot be fake or illusionary. The feeling is real and natural and it cannot be replace. This is natural bondage between two person through natural chemistry.
Namaste.
Wednesday, July 5, 2017
Like a madman
On last Saturday, I attended a potluck dinner at my Yoga teacher's apartment. I was pre-empted that the guard at the entrance is rude , so please be prepared. I pay no attention to this warning and I went there with my wife.
On reaching the entrance, there was one Indian guard who showed me to the left entrance and later he showed me to the right entrance. When I turned my car to the right entrance, he shouted at me and ask me to park my car in the middle between the entrance. As I was moving my car , he kept shouting and I asked him why is he shouting and he wanted to draw his stick to threaten me. I kept asking him why is he shouting . I was upset and the whole incident was not so pleasant as I finally allowed to enter the car park. I was puzzled at this level of madness and this guy is really hurting himself and me. What is the meaning of all this actions.
I was upset at the dinner and kept repeating the silly act of this guard and my host keep telling me that he is rude to so many people including the apartment owners . My host's husband who is s Spanish told me that he was ordered out of the swimming pool for wearing an unacceptable outfit.
As I cool down I remembered a story from Ajahn Braham. There was this women who asked her son to go to the market to buy eggs . So he went to the market and when he is about to enter a store selling eggs, there was this man shouting at him repeatedly and he could not enter the store and went home empty handed . His mother asked him why and he told her that the man outside the store kept shouting at him. She asked her son to go back to the store and buy the eggs again. So the man go back to the store and he notice the man kept shouting at him and he disregard the man and went into the store. On entering the store, the owner of the store told him that the man outside is mad and he has been scolding all his customers on entering the store. So , the man realized and became aware that why is he angry with a madman. The man is mad and how can he become angry with him as the mad man does not understand his action also. So, if we know the reason, we should all calm down and as if there is nothing happening. This is a very good story and this show that there are so much madness in this world and we have to aware of that so that we are not caught in some nonsense act and be upset about it.
Life like that , there are so much imperfection in this world.
Namaste.
On reaching the entrance, there was one Indian guard who showed me to the left entrance and later he showed me to the right entrance. When I turned my car to the right entrance, he shouted at me and ask me to park my car in the middle between the entrance. As I was moving my car , he kept shouting and I asked him why is he shouting and he wanted to draw his stick to threaten me. I kept asking him why is he shouting . I was upset and the whole incident was not so pleasant as I finally allowed to enter the car park. I was puzzled at this level of madness and this guy is really hurting himself and me. What is the meaning of all this actions.
I was upset at the dinner and kept repeating the silly act of this guard and my host keep telling me that he is rude to so many people including the apartment owners . My host's husband who is s Spanish told me that he was ordered out of the swimming pool for wearing an unacceptable outfit.
As I cool down I remembered a story from Ajahn Braham. There was this women who asked her son to go to the market to buy eggs . So he went to the market and when he is about to enter a store selling eggs, there was this man shouting at him repeatedly and he could not enter the store and went home empty handed . His mother asked him why and he told her that the man outside the store kept shouting at him. She asked her son to go back to the store and buy the eggs again. So the man go back to the store and he notice the man kept shouting at him and he disregard the man and went into the store. On entering the store, the owner of the store told him that the man outside is mad and he has been scolding all his customers on entering the store. So , the man realized and became aware that why is he angry with a madman. The man is mad and how can he become angry with him as the mad man does not understand his action also. So, if we know the reason, we should all calm down and as if there is nothing happening. This is a very good story and this show that there are so much madness in this world and we have to aware of that so that we are not caught in some nonsense act and be upset about it.
Life like that , there are so much imperfection in this world.
Namaste.
To be liked by people
Yeah, all of us like to be love or like by other people, so we go all out to be nice to the people around us even they are wrong or being nasty go you. Does this make us happy ? It is only superficial and is only an illusion. Why do I care whether people like me or not ? Is being popular or well liked means that we are good ? Do we need to prove to other people that we are good if we are nice to the nasty people around us.
This artificial sense of being liked or loved is only in our mind. I have read an article written by a famous Chinese writer " Chung Yeow ". She say that after her death , she don't need her family to arrange a wake for her and let people come to pay respect or send flowers to her wake. All these are so fake and artificial and hypocratic in their acts. What she wishes is to ask this people to donate to charity which helps humanity instead of coming and waste their money to pray for her after she die.
Yes, the world is full of hypocracy . People can be so fake and artificial and every thing they do , there is a motive or agenda or ulterior motives. Yes, the foundation of relationship is so loose and come one light wind, the relation is gone. Gone with the wind. This is foundation with people but hopefully not all people. People always come to see us with a motive and there is no such thing as free lunches. The agenda may not be immediate but there will be a day when the return is needed in one way or another.
So, in Buddhahood, there is a saying " Bodhi tree is not a tree, mirror on the wall is not a real thing , in reality, nothing comes from nothing , so where does the dusts and sadness rest " . We come from nothing and go into nothing , why we need to carry our sins and unhappiness with us.
Let the relationship follow its flow and path. If it is mend to be , it will happen and if it is not mend to be , how can force it . Leave it to fate and follow the flow in our life.
Namaste.
This artificial sense of being liked or loved is only in our mind. I have read an article written by a famous Chinese writer " Chung Yeow ". She say that after her death , she don't need her family to arrange a wake for her and let people come to pay respect or send flowers to her wake. All these are so fake and artificial and hypocratic in their acts. What she wishes is to ask this people to donate to charity which helps humanity instead of coming and waste their money to pray for her after she die.
Yes, the world is full of hypocracy . People can be so fake and artificial and every thing they do , there is a motive or agenda or ulterior motives. Yes, the foundation of relationship is so loose and come one light wind, the relation is gone. Gone with the wind. This is foundation with people but hopefully not all people. People always come to see us with a motive and there is no such thing as free lunches. The agenda may not be immediate but there will be a day when the return is needed in one way or another.
So, in Buddhahood, there is a saying " Bodhi tree is not a tree, mirror on the wall is not a real thing , in reality, nothing comes from nothing , so where does the dusts and sadness rest " . We come from nothing and go into nothing , why we need to carry our sins and unhappiness with us.
Let the relationship follow its flow and path. If it is mend to be , it will happen and if it is not mend to be , how can force it . Leave it to fate and follow the flow in our life.
Namaste.
Monday, July 3, 2017
The seed
I was waken up by my holy staff one day that I must fulfill my vows to GOD as it is a bad seed if I don't fulfill it. I know but on the other side, people telling me that if I keep my vow of " fung Sang" of the fishes into the river , it could spoilt the environment and may also be a bad seed for my act.
I know the impact of Karma , What goes around comes around and it is important to do good merits in order to receive good merits.. We sow what we reap. So, if I sow a bad seed , it will have a bad merit on me. So , it is all about 'doing and receiving' the merits.
Yeah, I also promised to be on vegetarian on the 15th and the 1st of every lunar month for six months and I have kept forgetting the dates. Yes, you can say, this is an excuse but I am really stuck with stuck with dilemma.
Once , my cancer struck sister in law asked me " who should I pray to ?" , Jesus or Buddha ? I was caught dumbfounded, why ? When in trouble only turn spiritual ? But , don't laugh, many people is like this. They dun remember the "karma" or the seed " concept. Jesus have promised all the Christians that whoever come through him , he or she shall have a place in heaven , Where is the need of the seeds ? We dun need the seeds or plant any good seeds as long as the " farmer" allow us into their garden or field. I am not speaking against the Christians but I am questioning the reality of the seeds. The logic of the seeds is more logical in life and we get what we do, right ?
Anyhow, my holy staff is not wrong either by warning me of the " seed" philosophy.
Namaste.
I know the impact of Karma , What goes around comes around and it is important to do good merits in order to receive good merits.. We sow what we reap. So, if I sow a bad seed , it will have a bad merit on me. So , it is all about 'doing and receiving' the merits.
Yeah, I also promised to be on vegetarian on the 15th and the 1st of every lunar month for six months and I have kept forgetting the dates. Yes, you can say, this is an excuse but I am really stuck with stuck with dilemma.
Once , my cancer struck sister in law asked me " who should I pray to ?" , Jesus or Buddha ? I was caught dumbfounded, why ? When in trouble only turn spiritual ? But , don't laugh, many people is like this. They dun remember the "karma" or the seed " concept. Jesus have promised all the Christians that whoever come through him , he or she shall have a place in heaven , Where is the need of the seeds ? We dun need the seeds or plant any good seeds as long as the " farmer" allow us into their garden or field. I am not speaking against the Christians but I am questioning the reality of the seeds. The logic of the seeds is more logical in life and we get what we do, right ?
Anyhow, my holy staff is not wrong either by warning me of the " seed" philosophy.
Namaste.
Sunday, July 2, 2017
Dream
Our mind play tricks even when we are asleep and it is by way of dreams.
I dreamt about my sister recovering from her fall and she was walking and talking to me. I was caught by surprise and was so happy as I rush to thank the Lord Buddha for this miracle. Suddenly , I woke up and it was back to reality . My sister is still in the same condition. Everything shatters in my face. What I am supposed to do bring her memory back and bring her life back to normal. I took her for a massage yesterday and she did feel pain in some parts of her body. Where are you, my dear sister ? When are you coming home to your real self ?
Last night , I also have another dream.. I dreamt about struggling with my job in Bangladesh. It was about the takeover of my job. I could remembered clearly but it was over the selection of the person to take over from me. It was blur and I feel very confused as I woke up to reality.
Life a dream and dream is life.. It is up to us to see life as it is. It can be unreal in reality but real in dreams . However, both in dream and in life, everything is an illusion. The story only last a life time and at the end , it is emptiness again.
We have to live the best , eat the best , do whatever we want to do, say whatever we want to say but not hurting anybody and belief in what we want to belief . Make fake things real and real things fake. In the end , nothing is real.
Namaste.
I dreamt about my sister recovering from her fall and she was walking and talking to me. I was caught by surprise and was so happy as I rush to thank the Lord Buddha for this miracle. Suddenly , I woke up and it was back to reality . My sister is still in the same condition. Everything shatters in my face. What I am supposed to do bring her memory back and bring her life back to normal. I took her for a massage yesterday and she did feel pain in some parts of her body. Where are you, my dear sister ? When are you coming home to your real self ?
Last night , I also have another dream.. I dreamt about struggling with my job in Bangladesh. It was about the takeover of my job. I could remembered clearly but it was over the selection of the person to take over from me. It was blur and I feel very confused as I woke up to reality.
Life a dream and dream is life.. It is up to us to see life as it is. It can be unreal in reality but real in dreams . However, both in dream and in life, everything is an illusion. The story only last a life time and at the end , it is emptiness again.
We have to live the best , eat the best , do whatever we want to do, say whatever we want to say but not hurting anybody and belief in what we want to belief . Make fake things real and real things fake. In the end , nothing is real.
Namaste.
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